Before you try to bring a stranger over, you should do a whole lot of checking. Its easy to be anyone you want over the phone or internet but the reality might be entirely different. How do you know if he has a criminal record, or drinks too much or has a violent streak? Take your time and see about doing a background check on him. Here's one you can try:http://www.ebiinc.com/services/international_criminal_background_check.htm